Before becoming homeless, Tomie was fully employed. But his struggle with mental health kept him from thriving in his work environments. “I lost my job and became homeless shortly after. I was couch surfing at a friend’s house, living outside and in shelters before coming to Tender Mercies,” Tomie said. At 30 years old and battling mental health issues, Tomie came to find a permanent home at Tender Mercies in November 2021.
Now, his journey to find stability is beginning to change. Tomie has been able to take control of his health through the wrap-around services provided by Tender Mercies. This year, in order reclaim his independence Tomie is focusing on his mental health, saying “Right now I am making sure I am stable and focused.” Tomie has quit his 12-year smoking habit, interacts regularly with residents and staff, and is working to secure Social Security benefits.
“Mostly what I want is to be emotionally and financially stable,” he says. “I am looking forward to getting better and beginning to prepare for a job by volunteering.”
Around the buildings, Tomie is known as a kind, sweet, and gentle soul who is always willing to help. By living in a positive, stable environment while doing the real work of betting himself, Tomie is living proof of the transformative nature of Permanent Supportive Housing.
When you support Tender Mercies, you support people like Tomie’s journey to reclaim their sense of security, dignity and community.
Tender Mercies wishes Tomie the best of luck on his journey and is proud to support residents like him along their path to independence.
When asked what’s next for Tomie, with a smile he said “That’s why I’m at Tender Mercies, I’m trying to figure that out! Hopefully it’ll be prosperous!” With the support of our donors, we know it will be.
